I read an article online the other day that mentioned the engagement of a well known DJ. The article showed a photo of them together. My first thought was 'she's hot'. But then I looked at the difference between the two of them. She's gorgeous, he's average. She's tall, he's short. But the look she had in the photo of them together was a mix of admiration and lust.

So how do you make yourself irrestable to women?

The answer is simple - be a real man. If a short DJ can do it, why not you?

Being a 'man' when dating face to face is about being an alpha male.. Online it is about showing her you are the man she wants to get to know above everyone else.

Don't Wait For Her To Show Interest

Are you the type of guy who fears rejection so you write a tiny first letter and see if she is interested in you before you show real interest in her? Why? If you are genuinely interested in her, show it.

Your Russian woman will receive several emails in the first few weeks when she joins. True, she will contact a few men herself if she is attracted to them. But why sit there hoping to be one of those. Go for it and let her her deal with how she feels about you.

Don't be the guy who holds your cards to your chest before you think you have a winning hand. She probably thinks you are not genuinely interested and will move on to someone else. Most woman want a man who will lead the interaction and risk some rejection to go after what he wants.

Agreeing With Her Always

Showing her you are interested is crucial to the success of an online romance. Letting her walk all over you isn't. Yet it is surprising the amount of guys that will agree with anything a woman says to avoid scaring her away. Even worse is actually agreeing with what she says to determine how she feels about an issue.

Act like a man and express what you think. Be confident with your opinions but receptive enough to appreciate other people's point of view. If you simply try and not rock the boat, she will spot that a mile away and quickly look for someone else.

Don't Be Too Available

Russian women respect men who take their obligations seriously. It shows them you will be a dependable father and partner who takes care of his family. What this means for you is don't ignore your responsibilities just to talk to her.

You may want to talk to her a lot more, but don't end up being the type of guy that puts off a family dinner with your parents just so you can be online when it is convenient for her and then proudly tell her that. Don't be the type of guy who immediately sends back text messages regardless of how busy you are.

Now I am not saying you should play hard to get. What I am saying is that you should make it clear that you have your life to lead and it does not resolve around her. Be willing to find a compromise to adjust your life to fit her in. But don't rearrange it to focus on another person.